ex-skill

ex.skill

*"You broke up, but the way they texted is still burned into your brain. You remember every tone, every pause — you just can't receive another one."*

Your ex is gone, but you still remember exactly how they talked?
They disappeared without even a last message?
They're still around, but you can never go back?
You just want to talk to them one more time — even if it's only a simulation?

Turn fading intimacy into a lasting Skill. Welcome to cyber-immortality.

Feed in your chat history (WeChat, iMessage) plus your own descriptions
Generate a digital persona Skill that truly feels like them
Talks in their tone, shows care in their way, knows when they'd go silent

Data Sources · Install · Usage · Examples · Install Guide

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Data Sources

This is still a beta version of ex.skill — more sources coming soon. Stay tuned!

Install

OpenClaw (Recommended)

Recommended: OpenClaw — pair it with WeChat / Telegram message forwarding to chat with your ex's digital persona directly in the messaging app. Way more immersive.

git clone https://github.com/titanwings/ex-skill ~/.openclaw/workspace/skills/create-ex

Claude Code

Claude Code looks for skills in .claude/skills/ at the git repo root. Make sure you're in the right directory.

# Install to current project (run at git repo root)
mkdir -p .claude/skills
git clone https://github.com/titanwings/ex-skill .claude/skills/create-ex

# Or install globally (available in all projects)
git clone https://github.com/titanwings/ex-skill ~/.claude/skills/create-ex

DeepSeek Harness (DSH)

DeepSeek Harness natively discovers filesystem skills from .dsh/skills/ in a project or $DSH_HOME/skills/ (defaults to ~/.dsh/skills/) for all projects. No adapter or core workflow changes are required.

# Install to the current project (run at the git repo root)
mkdir -p .dsh/skills
git clone https://github.com/titanwings/ex-skill .dsh/skills/ex-skill

# Or install for all DSH projects
mkdir -p ~/.dsh/skills
git clone https://github.com/titanwings/ex-skill ~/.dsh/skills/ex-skill

Dependencies (optional)

pip3 install -r requirements.txt

WeChat auto-extraction supports Windows and macOS — just keep the desktop client logged in. iMessage requires macOS. See INSTALL.md for details.

Usage

In OpenClaw, Claude Code, or DeepSeek Harness, type:

/create-ex

Follow the prompts to enter their name, basic info (gender, age, zodiac), personality tags (MBTI, attachment style), then import chat history. All fields are optional — even a description alone can generate a persona.

Once created, use /{slug} to talk to them.

Commands

/move-on is a gentle alias for delete. It's not about holding on — it's about saying a proper goodbye.

Examples

Input: Female, 25, Aries, ISFP, avoidant attachment, together 2 years, broke up 3 months ago

Late night, missing them

You        ❯ I still miss you

ex.skill   ❯ ...Yeah. Go to sleep.

Found an old photo

You        ❯ Remember our first date?

ex.skill   ❯ The one by the river? Hahaha you spilled coffee all over yourself,
             that was so embarrassing, I still remember

Can't help but ask

You        ❯ Do you still like me?

ex.skill   ❯ ...
             ❯ Why are you asking this all of a sudden
             ❯ (three minutes later)
             ❯ Don't ask that

Fight mode

You        ❯ Are you mad at me again?

ex.skill   ❯ No
             ❯ (read, no reply for 40 minutes)
             ❯ I'm just a little tired

You want to make up

You        ❯ I'm sorry

ex.skill   ❯ (long pause)
             ❯ Did you eat today?

You finally say it

You        ❯ Are we really over?

ex.skill   ❯ What do you think
             ❯ (a while later)
             ❯ I actually always... never mind

Features

Skill Structure

Each ex Skill is composed of two parts that drive output together:

Runtime logic: Receive message → Check core rules → Retrieve relationship memory → Assess current emotional state → Output in their style

Persona's 6-layer structure:

Supported Tags

Attachment Styles: Secure · Anxious · Avoidant · Disorganized (Fearful-Avoidant)

Relationship Traits: Quiet but caring · Cold front · Actions over words · Needs space · Can't apologize · Possessive · Emotional · Cold-rational · Tough outside soft inside · Read-no-reply · Read-random-reply ...

Astrology: Full support for Sun/Moon/Rising/Venus/Mars/Mercury × 12 signs

MBTI: All 16 types + 8 dominant cognitive functions (Fi/Fe/Ti/Te/Ni/Ne/Si/Se) + Enneagram 1-9 + Wings

Gender & Relationships: All gender identities and relationship types supported, including non-binary and same-sex relationships

Evolution

• Add more messages → Auto-analyze incremental data → Merge into Persona without overwriting existing conclusions
• Conversational correction → Say "they wouldn't do that" → Writes to Correction layer, takes effect immediately
• Version control → Auto-archives on every update, rollback to any previous version
• Multi-ex support → No limit on how many. Each stored independently, no cross-contamination.

Project Structure

This project follows the AgentSkills open standard. The entire repo is a skill directory:

create-ex/
├── SKILL.md              # Skill entry point (official frontmatter)
├── prompts/              # Prompt templates
│   ├── intake.md         #   Conversational info gathering (with astrology/MBTI/attachment tables)
│   ├── chat_analyzer.md  #   Chat history analysis
│   ├── persona_analyzer.md #  Comprehensive analysis, outputs structured persona data
│   ├── persona_builder.md #   persona.md 6-layer template
│   ├── merger.md         #   Incremental merge logic
│   └── correction_handler.md # Conversational correction handler
├── tools/                # Python tools
│   ├── wechat_decryptor.py   # WeChat desktop database decryption
│   ├── wechat_parser.py      # WeChat / iMessage chat extraction
│   ├── skill_writer.py       # Skill file management
│   └── version_manager.py    # Version archiving & rollback
├── exes/                 # Generated ex Skills (gitignored)
├── docs/PRD.md
├── requirements.txt
└── LICENSE

Notes

• Chat history quality determines Skill quality: Real chat logs + subjective descriptions > descriptions alone
• Prioritize importing: Arguments/conflicts > Daily chat > Sweet moments (conflicts reveal the most authentic personality)
• WeChat auto-extraction: Windows / macOS, just keep desktop WeChat logged in and provide their name
• iMessage auto-extraction: macOS, provide phone number or Apple ID
• LGBT+ friendly — gender field supports all gender identities and pronouns
• Create as many exes as you want, no limit
• Still a demo — if you find bugs, please open an issue!

Recommended Chat Export Tools

Auto-decryption is still being refined and may have some bugs. If it fails, you can use these open-source tools to manually export your chat history first, then paste or import into this project.

These are independent open-source projects. This project does not include their code — we only support their export formats in our parser:

Tool recommendations via @therealXiaomanChu. Thanks to all open-source authors — together we build cyber-immortality!

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